… Somehow, I always end up taking the lead and running the show. I will say, though: He’s a really good follower.” And he’s been following Sandy’s lead every step of their marriage – … “I was basically carrying a child, and I had no idea,” she said. “It’s not like I was really overweight, so how is that even possible – to not have any clue?” Her diagnosis? Stage 3B … “When I’m down, he’s right there to pick me up, and vice versa,” Sandy said. “We’ve gotten really good at balancing each other out.” But perhaps the biggest blessing of all to come from …